I dont know how to invite my aunts email address to my list. please help. just sent it to my email address. ?

I am new at this "email" and "im" thing. i used to be up on all of it but i had some babies and stopped using the net for anything. and a lot has changed in the in the last two years. thanks for your help
I dont know how to invite my aunts email address to my list. please help. just sent it to my email address. ?
Import Contacts Into Messenger:


1. With Messenger open, click on "Contacts."


2. From the drop down menu, click on "Import Contacts."


3. When the "Import Contacts window opens, click "Next."


4. When the next window opens(your Yahoo Contacts List), check the names you want to import.


5. Click "Next" and follow the prompts.


NOTE: The selected contacts will receive an email from Yahoo inviting them to join you on Messenger. You will be added to each others Messenger's lists when they accept the invitation
Reply:send her somthing then click add to contacts
Reply:She send email to your Y! account? A snap. See her address? Next to it should be Add Contact (in blue). Click it.